Let's start with the men.

Have a look through your underwear drawer tonight.

What do you see?
What does your wife see when you undress, or dress?
Do you have any underwear which is sexually attractive, or makes you feel sexually confident?

Now we are not necessarily talking about leather thongs, or Tarzan striped pouches, which seem to enhance your penis out of all proportions here – although they can be great fun on some occasions!!

No, we are talking about underpants which look good on you, and make you confident and manly.

Some scientists say men should discard their pants every 12 months to ensure they are pest free! So, make a start by binning all your old, worn and faded ones, and then those too small or big for you.

Now, think: 'If I had an accident and went to hospital and they had to strip me down to my pants, would I be glad I had these on?'. You see, if you'd be embarrassed letting a nurse or doctor see you in you old worn-out Y-fronts, why should your wife put up with it?

Women tend not to be so aroused by the site of naked flesh, or skimpily dressed bodies as men do, but they do like their men to look good!

Replacing your underwear doesn't have to be expensive either. There is a lot of good quality innerwear for men available which is inexpensive, so go on, stock up with new underwear this weekend and give you and your wife a treat!

Remember too, it's important to keep the testes as cool as possible to improve sperm count. So if you're trying for a baby, ditch all pants that are not 100% cotton!

Check out the extensive range of everyday underwear at Whollylove – including the popular quality brands Aertex and Ley, available in a great range of sizes, colours and styles. Who said men’s underwear is boring?!

Ok, now for the women.

Women like underwear for comfort, and men like women to wear underwear for raunchiness and to turn them on. In fact, men like to see underwear on women but the items don't often stay on for long!

So, there will, of course, be times of the day (and month!), where you simply want the good old comfortable type knickers, and that's great. Remember that comfort doesn’t have to be unattractive – Whollylove stocks quality everyday underwear too. So you can be comfortable and attractive to your husband everyday!!

But, putting everyday wear to one side, have you ever thought what underwear would make you feel more confident about yourself - or sexy?

Have you ever thought about the feel of French knickers and a silky camisole top underneath a skirt/blouse or dress or suit?

Have you ever considered changing your standards pack of six white pants for a range of different colours and styles: high leg, low cut, mini, etc.?

What about wearing the newer style boy shorts for comfort and also sex appeal?

And then G strings or thongs? Once hailed as the woman's best answer to getting rid of Visible Panty Line (VPL), they are now being overtaken by boy shorts, and a wide range of lacy, silk and other materials which have a flat edge to the rather than an inch of stitches!

Having said that, many men love their wives in G-strings or thongs; underwear which is there but not there… particularly if the man in question is a ‘bottom’ man rather than one who particularly likes breast or legs! You’ll know if he is!!

If you've never tried another type of underwear why not try one just to see. Some women who like the comfort of bigger underwear and a vest may like to try an all-in-one. If you do, just remember many blokes will take half an hour to undo the poppers at the bottom and it can be about as romantic as putting on a babygrow!