1. Take your time.

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You may be raring to go, but understand that it physically takes her body longer than yours to become aroused.

2. Don't skip the foreplay

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Caress her slowly, beginning perhaps with a non-genital massage. Work up to her erotic areas slowly; she'll indicate when she's ready for things to heat up!

3. Discover her erogenous zones

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Some women love to have their nipples stroked or sucked, others don't. Find out where she likes to be touched -- and don't frustrate her by doing something elsewhere that won't please her.

4. Understand that she may be self-conscious about her body

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If so, don't criticize her figure or the size of her breasts. In fact, don't call attention to her body at all. Enjoy her body with your eyes and hands, not your words. Or be specifically appreciative – describe exactly the parts of her body you find especially attractive, she can’t discount your praise so easily this way.

5. Introduce her to the pleasures of oral sex

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She's likely to find the intensity of the experience most satisfying if you locate her clitoris and stroke it with your tongue in a way that brings her to climax.