Most guys are brought up on the attitude that being kind, generous and complimentary to girls is how to win their affections. Take them on dates, buy them flowers, the usual romantic stuff is the way to win her heart… but strangely enough this doesn’t seem to work in the real world. Guys who use women like they were toilet paper, still have them chasing after them. So why it that the nice guy always gets the line ‘I think we should just be friends’.

Giving in to every whim

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‘Could you help me with this’, ‘I’d really appreciate it’ and ‘Pretty please’, these and those puppy dog eyes have taken the best of us, and most of us cant help but want to aid these damsons in distress… hey we’re nice guys! But her thinking she can just call you when she wants and get you to do what she says, that’s what’s called being a Wussy. You’re being desperate, you’re acting like a girl, and that’s just not attractive. You’re giving them too much attention, like they’re the only woman in your life, women want to feel that they have to chase you, and work for your affection. You need to have a life outside of this woman!

Complimenting all the time

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Strangely enough complimenting doesn’t create attraction in a girl. It gives her the power in an interaction; basically you’re saying ‘You have a power over me’. You have to realise that women are constantly testing you, want a guy that’s actually testing them, making sure that they’re good enough for him, and this is what really drives women crazy. This isn’t to say you can’t compliment, just not a constant barrage, especially when you’ve just met.